Put on a happy face

Well, PaPa and Daey left today for the long drive back home.  They’d surprised us (almost quite literally) with a visit, and they knew they’d only stay for a long weekend.  They squeezed in as much time with Claire as they could on this visit, and we all had a great time.

The last time they were here, in June, the day they left and the following day were extremely rough on Claire…and Momma.  She wasn’t old enough to know that they’d gone bye-bye as in “we won’t see you for a long time” as opposed to “we’ll be back from the store shortly.”  We were going to be seeing them in about a month, but that was no consolation to poor little Claire who wanted to see them right now.

I’m not sure how things will go this time.  They just left, and she’s happily playing in my office while I’m trying to get caught up on files.  I really think she thinks they’ll be back later today.  They won’t; we won’t be seeing them in person until December.  I’m not going to dwell on that…but it’s hard not to brace myself for the worst.

I’m trying to put on a happy face, and I’m trying to remain calm, upbeat and positive.  Maybe this time will go better than last time?

I certainly hope so…for her sake, and mine.  :(

3 Responses to “Put on a happy face”


  • i know the feeling. i just went home (which is about 4 hours away) knowing i won’t be back probably until thanksgiving. and it is unbelievably hard on me, so i can’t even imagine what it would be like for claire not being able to comprehend that.

  • awww…:( i hope the poor thing doesn’t realize…or if she doesn’t, doesn’t give you a headache for it!

  • It’s always stressful to have (even the best) family visit, but it’s even worse when they leave. Makes you realizes how much you lack without them in your life.

    *wanders off to a corner to cry.*

    I miss my family- 2,000+ miles away.

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