Monthly Archive for July, 2008

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I was just trying to be patriotic

So, I was trying to figure out what to wear for the 4th of July. I thought wearing something red, white, and blue would be fitting, and the t-shirt my hubby got me in London was perfect!

Click photo to read the logo…

What?  It’s red, white, and blue!

Or not.

After I looked at myself in the mirror, it hit me. Wearing a decidedly British shirt on the day that recognizes our independence from all things decidedly British, may not be the best choice.

Even if it is red, white and blue.

And, the saying makes my near-mistake even funnier. Mind the gap, indeed. More like create a gap, if I’m not careful. And, I wouldn’t want to do that! I love the Brits!

;)

Needless to say, I decided not to wear it, and crisis (real or imaginary) was averted. :)

Edited to add:  This is the logo for the Underground (tube/subway system) and all throughout the system, they have an automated voice reminding passengers to “mind the gap” or watch your step between the train and the platform. I think it’s pretty clever and can mean a bunch of things in different contexts… ;)

In Remembrance of Her

May 24, 1918 to July 10, 2008

As I mentioned before, my grandmother suffered a massive stroke last week. Well, she passed away yesterday morning. She was 90 years old and had lived a very full life. The last week has been extremely difficult for all of us, but at least she’s at peace now.

As we’re getting ready to make the trip back for the funeral, I keep remembering things about her…and smiling to myself.

Here are some things I’ll never forget:

  • She showed us how to make ‘little ladies’ out of Hollyhock blooms and toothpicks.
  • She showed me how using a white nail pencil under my nails and clear fingernail polish made an awesome French manicure.
  • Her old car had a turn signal that would make a loud, “CLICK-CLACK, CLICK-CLACK, CLICK-CLACK” noise, and she really was too short to reach the pedals without a pillow.
  • She kept Keebler Club Crackers in the oven. They always tasted so buttery and warm.
  • When I was little, I accidentally got locked in her bathroom, which, at the time, was all the way upstairs. No one could hear me calling, and I was trapped for what seemed like hours. She showed me how to stomp on the floor really loudly if it ever happened again.
  • She’d let me sit at her dressing table and look at her brooches and smell her powder and perfume.
  • Grandma had two names. She was one of five girls and was always her father’s tomboy, so she went by a boyish name to all of her sisters and childhood friends. Then, she had her “real” name. But, to us, she was always Grandma.
  • She would go out of her way to cover her face when people were taking photos. Somehow she’d behave herself if the situation was professional (a wedding, etc.), but you could tell she didn’t want to. Over the last couple of years, my hubby got some really good photos of her when she was distracted by Claire. ;)

Speaking of photos, when Claire was about 18-months old, Grandma found an old picture of my mom from when she was about a year old. The two pictures are nearly indistinguishable. Grandma got a real kick out of that. She had my sister make copies of the two pictures together and she sent them to me. Here they are:

Click to enlarge. Clicking again will show more detail.
Yes, this is a photo of a photo…my apologies.
;)

Grandma’s Little Girl & Claire

Isn’t the resemblance uncanny?? I can only imagine the memories Grandma had of her own little girl (my mom) when she watched Claire play and grow.

Even though we lived hours and hours and miles and miles away, we’d see her in person or talk to her on the phone as often as we could. She was never want for a photo or a phone call, and I know that Claire will miss her.

I’m sure over the next week, I’ll remember even more about Grandma, but these are just the things off the top of my head. I’m just so glad that she’s at peace now and that she was able to experience a long, full life.

Tourist in my own state

For the 4th of July, we took a little mini-vacation to the mountains. I’d been to this particular resorty town before, but I’d never really had a chance to explore it on foot or in great detail. On the last night of our trip, we decided to dodge a threatening rain storm and head farther west to explore another resorty town, which according to radar was rain-free. (And, it was!) This town is world-known and rather hoity-toity.

It wasn’t until we were there that I realized that I’d never actually been there. I’d been over that pass countless times, and my hubby had skied there many times, but I’d never actually been in the town.  Doh!  For real!  I couldn’t believe it.

I was pleasantly surprised! It was actually really cool!

(And really cold! I felt like a total tourist buying a fleece jacket off the ½ off rack, but my hubby justified it by saying that I never buy clothes for myself [true], and the sale price made it very reasonable [true], and I needed another jacket [also true].)

And, for the record, I told him, out loud, that he was right. You see, before packing for this trip, he made sure we all packed jeans and a jacket. I had rolled my eyes at him and made gagging noises, but I packed what he told me to pack. I was wearing my jeans, but my jacket was conveniently in the car. And, it was a rain jacket, not a fleece…but, I digress. He was right, and I told him so. :)

And, the reason I had trouble wrapping my head around that was because the day I nearly froze to death was the day people were melting at home. ;)

Anyway…in exploring this little well-known place, we stumbled upon the most magnificent thing. A pirate ship! On the side of a mountain! Who knew!?

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Clicking a second time will show more detail.

A Pirate Ship!

A pirate ship!

And a dragon!

And a dragon!

And a little boat!

And a little boat!

And a little girl peeking through the top window!

And a little girl peeking through the top window!

Needless to say, the pirate ship was Claire’s favorite part of this particular adventure, and she did not want to leave it behind. I had to carry her, kicking and screaming (quite literally, I’m afraid) to the stroller. All the way to the potty in the parking garage, and to the car, and all the way back to the condo she kept lamenting for the pirate ship.

“But, I don’t wanna leave the pirate ship!!!”

…which out of context is pretty funny.

Summer was the perfect time to explore this place, because everything is so different when the snow has melted, plus the normally $15 parking garage was FREE! Bonus! We had such a great time, and I can’t believe I’ve lived here for almost 10 years, and I’ve never been there before.

There’s a first time for everything, I guess. ;)

Fireworks & Free buses

So, our plan for celebrating the 4th of July was simple: See the fireworks in the mountains.

We’d rented a condo in a resorty town, and we knew that one of the major firework shows in the area would be on, fire-danger or not. In a neighboring town, they shoot the fireworks off over the reservoir, and have for several years. In years past, it’s been the only show in the area because of the fire-danger. This year, some of the communities were having their own shows, but we wanted to go to the reservoir. Everyone has raved about this particular show, but we’ve never had the opportunity to see it ourselves.

This year, that’s what we decided to do.

In doing some research for our trip, we discovered that the town where we’d be staying has a free bus service that runs all over town and between the neighboring towns, too. We called, and sure enough, they were running on the 4th! Woo hoo!

So, we loaded the car, battled holiday traffic and arrived at our destination. We got checked into the condo and did some exploring. We then found the main bus terminal and found the right bus to the neighboring city, 9 miles away.

Claire was so excited to ride the bus that she could hardly contain herself. She’s only 2-and-a-half, so she had no idea what it all meant, but she knew she couldn’t wait. We’d brought the umbrella stroller with us so that it could be folded up and stored under the seat for the ride, and it worked perfectly.

“Momma! We’re ridin’ the bus!” she’d say excitedly, the whole way there. Needless to say, her excitement was contagious, and it was one of the best bus rides I’ve ever experienced.

The buses were free, were on time, and were clean. All three of my criteria were met. Awesome. And, not having to drive and find a place to park and then play bumper cars on the way home with the other billion people at the show was even better.

We found a great place for dinner, headed over to the carnival for dessert, and found awesome seats at the marina for the show. They shot the fireworks off over the water, and we were so close that it looked like the entire sky was exploding right over our heads.

We weren’t sure how Claire would do with sound of the fireworks, but she did great! She loved every minute of it. She was cheering right along with everyone else.

I knew it would be a late night. The fireworks show started around 9:30pm, half an hour past Claire’s bedtime. Her bedtime on the weekends is somewhat flexible anyway, so I wasn’t concerned about this. The show lasted almost an hour and then we moved with the mob of people away from the marina. I knew that getting to the bus stop and walking back to the condo in the dark would be an adventure.

But, there was a small little detail that I hadn’t really anticipated.

I should have known that after a certain hour, the free bus service turns into the free drunk bus service. I wouldn’t have changed what we did, but I think being prepared for it would have helped me deal with the situation in my head.

For the record, Claire wasn’t the only child on the drunk bus. There were other families that were taking advantage of it, too. Normally, children wouldn’t be on the drunk bus, but the 4th of July festivities had altered everyone’s schedules.

I wasn’t sure how much of it Claire remembered until she was talking to my hubby’s parents the next day on the phone and told them all about it. In great detail. Sweet! That’s just the conversation you want to clarify, letmetellya.

When it was my turn to talk on the phone, I did just that. “Yes, there were two people thrown off our bus last night. Yes, the bus driver was very angry at the ‘bad man.’ [her words...not mine!] Yes, one man was thrown off the bus at the hospital…but that’s because the hospital was an actual bus stop and it was purely coincidental that the bus driver threw him off there. Yes, there were lots of people acting goofy on our bus, and yes, I wouldn’t let Claire talk to them.”

Lovely.

I mean, the last thing I needed was my very verbal toddler getting into a conversation with a drunk party-goer-now-bus-rider.  Luckily, I was able to keep her quiet.

At least the drunk bus exists and those people weren’t behind the wheel. In fact, I’d rather sit quietly in my seat, holding my child close and whispering to her that everything is going to be okay, and please don’t talk out loud to the goofy people, and we’ll be back soon, than have even one of those people driving.

So, note to self: If we do this again next year, which we very well may because the over all experience was awesome…be prepared to handle the drunk bus. Because even though it was an adventure, it was more than worth it.

The difference between Daddy and Momma

The goal:  Pick out big girl panties for Claire to wear today

When Momma does it:  Each big girl panty is laid out and all the virtues of said princess or creature is discussed.  Do you want to wear Jasmine™ today?  What about Cinderella™?  Oh, look!  This one has three princesses on it!  In what seems like an eternity later, a choice is made and we get on with the rest of our day.

When Daddy does it:  He opens the drawer and says, “Oh look!  It’s a Hello Kitty™ day!”

;)

Overheard at the 4th of July Carnival

We had the opportunity to watch the 4th of July fireworks over a mountain reservoir. The area surrounding the marina had been transformed into your typical carnival-like atmosphere. We got there a little early so we could have dessert and to get good spots for the firework show.

As the guys pushed Claire in the stroller over toward the Beverage Line, I waited patiently in the Roasted Almond Line. It was next to the Funnel Cakes Booth.

I had just completed an internal debate over which line to do, ultimately choosing the Roasted Almond Line, and a woman and her friend walked past the Funnel Cake Booth.

“Ugh,” the woman said with disgust to her friend. “That just smells like batter and grease.”

“Mmmm. Tasty batter and grease…and isn’t that the point?” I thought to myself, almost ready to jump from my line to the other but deciding against it.

:)

We’re back! (and a quick update)

We’re back from our trip to the mountains!

My dad is doing much better**, and we’re just waiting on the call about my grandma. She is under the care of Hospice now. She is resting peacefully right now and the next phase of her journey will be here soon. When we get the call, we’ll get the travel plans for the funeral all squared away.

We had a fabulous time on our 4th of July Mini-vacation to the mountains! I’ll be posting some quotes and little stories over the next few days. In the meantime, I should get the aftermath of this most recent trip under control. Time will tell how much time we have to prepare for our next trip.

**Edited:  Originally, he was told he could go home…yea!  Then, at the last minute, he was told they didn’t like the results of some heart-test, so he had to stay until the heart doctor could evaluate it…boo!  They are doing some kind of procedure to check everything out.  I told him to study really hard for this test so that he can pass it with flying colors and really go home this time!  ;)

Monday’s Post by Merlin

So, they’re supposed to be back today. I think. Jasper keeps track of all the details around here. I’m not sure if Momma will have a chance to post today or not…so I’ll post for her. See? I can be an overachiever. Jasper’s not the only one.

Or maybe she told me to post on Monday, and I just don’t remember? We won’t tell her that part. Let’s just stay with the “Merlin can be an overachiever, too” part. ;)

That being said, I’m not sure what else there is to say. A picture would make this post an official post, so I’ll be sure to add one…and then my guest blogger duties are fulfilled.

Now I think I’ll go back to looking out the window with Jasper.  (I’m the cute black one on the left with the long monkey tail.)

Keeping a watchful eye

Anyway, I gotta run. It’s been fun!

Meow,
Merlin

Sunday’s Post by Merlin

Okay, so, this posting thing doesn’t seem to be too difficult. It does take a lot of concentra…

Oops. I did it again. You don’t understand. That neighbor-cat comes on the deck and tries to taunt us. We must maintain our dignity and Jasper needed my assistance at the glass door in the kitchen.

Anyway, I’m back. Where was I?

Oh, yes. This posting thing doesn’t seem to be too difficult.  Still, typing takes so much energy, so I’ll stick to photos.

Well, here are some photos that Momma hasn’t shown you. (Be sure to click on each one to enlarge. Clicking again will show more detail.) I figure now is as good a time as any to prove to you that Claire is a real child. Some of you may be thinking that she’s just this cute little figment of someone’s imagination. She’s so photogenic and always perfectly posed.

That is not the Claire we know and love. I mean, it is, but there’s another side to her.

The one we know used to cry.

Another side to Claire

Granted, she doesn’t cry as much as she used to, and we were told she didn’t cry as much as some babies do…but still. Cry she did.

And, then there’s the cute photos Momma posts, but she doesn’t show the whole story.

Some of you may remember this photo:

Claire in a diaper box - June 2007

But, I bet you didn’t get to see this one:

Behind the scenes

Momma claims that she was taking the picture as Claire fell…but you be the judge. By the way, Claire wasn’t hurt in the filming of that documentary.

And, then? Last year, there was this huge commotion, all kinds of ruckus, and then our house was full of firefighters. Something about Claire’s head bleeding all over the place. Afterwards, Momma insisted on taking photos of Claire’s wound, but after a while, Claire had had enough.

No more pictures!

Even I can tell that Claire is done with the photos, yes? Silly Momma. Hasn’t poor Claire been through enough?

But, I realize it can be hard to tell when someone doesn’t want her picture taken versus when that someone is just being coy:

Stop it!

So much has happened since Momma took that picture of Claire in February 2006! Isn’t she a cutie? I’m glad she lives here.

Anyway, I gotta run. Until tomorrow…

Meow,
Merlin

Saturday’s Post by Merlin

Momma, Daddy and Claire have gone to the mountains. Claire’s uncle went with them, and I hope they have a great time. I’m sure they will…they always seem to.

I begged and begged Momma to let me do a guest post for her while she was gone. Jasper got to do it last time, so I thought it was my turn.

She thinks I’m unfocused and not capable of…

OH! I’ll be right back! Something really cool is happening in the other room!!

Hmmm…where was I? Oh, right. Maybe this is why she told me just to find some pictures to post and not worry about typing a whole lot.

So, I’ll keep this short.

Momma told me to remind you to click on the photos to enlarge and clicking a second time will show more detail. I’m not sure what that means or why it’s important, but I’m glad I remembered to tell you.

Merlin and Claire

Here is a picture of Claire when she was just six months old. (She is two-and-a-half, but it just seems like we took this picture yesterday!)  She and I used to hang out all the time, and we still do, actually. It was easier to hang out with her when she wasn’t very mobile…but I’ve adjusted.

Oops!

I swear, I had nothing to do with this! Momma and I turned our backs for just a moment, and look what we found! Jasper says he knew this would happen, but he’s just a little Know-It-All-Kitty, if you ask me.

Anyway, I gotta run. Until tomorrow…

Meow,
Merlin