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23-months old today!

Well, we have one month left before Claire turns 2-years old!! I realize this benchmark marks the beginning of a stereotypically challenging year, but I’m actually looking forward to this. Yes, I’m writing this down so that I can read back and see what a glutton for punishment I really was. ;)

What else can I do? It is what it is, right? I’ve dealt with some incredibly frustrating adults in my life, most of which didn’t have such a beautiful smile or offer to give me such a sweet hug and kiss after a meltdown. ;)

I love the fact that she talks all the time, and with that are these wacky ideas of how things should work. Here she is, this morning, in mid-story…before she was even technically up for the day. :)

in mid-story…23-months old today!

As frustrating as Toddler Logic and Mood Swings are, they are amazing to watch. It’s not unlike a tornado…so powerful and destructive, yet oddly mesmerizing. I find myself wondering what will happen next. Will there be more flailing about on the ground? Will there be more whining? What about the screaming…will there be more of that?

Figuring out you’re not the same person as someone else is a monumental thing, and it’s fraught with painful realizations. Understanding that you actually have a say in the matters around you can be intoxicating. It’s something we take for granted, standing so far away from our 2-year old selves. We made it, and so will she.

So, we have one more month before we can officially celebrate Claire’s induction into the Two-Year Old club…

23-months old today!

…and I can’t wait!

22-months old today!

Claire is 22-months old, today (Sunday, September 30, 2007)! It was three months ago today that we had our first trip to the ER. You can still see her scar, but it’s definitely starting to fade. I am happy to report that the trauma of that day has faded as well.

22-months old today!

Here is a picture of Claire that I took this afternoon. It’s a really sad state of affairs when such a cute little girl has nothing to play with and no books to read. ;)

21-months old today!

Claire turned 21-months old today! It is also the birthday of her Grandma (my mom) and one of her cousins! (Nephew Five is now Six!)

Ever since Merlin and Jasper’s birthday, Claire has been saying, “Happy Birday, Moh-Moh!! Happy Birday Jack-oh!!” repeatedly. She will even replace their names with everyone else’s names. She thinks it’s a random greeting, like “Nighty-Night!” or “Bye-Bye!” Of course, I could only get her to say it once on the phone with Grandma. Sure enough, as soon as we hung up, she’s said it non-stop. Toddlers are such wily and unruly beasts. ;)

I’m just amazed at how much she’s changed over the last 21-months. I remember laying on the floor with her, trying to get her to roll over. “Come on Claire. You can do it! You can do it!” She actually rolled over once when she was two months old, but she really started doing it when she was four months old. So, now it’s kinda funny that I spend most of my day saying, “Is it a good idea to stand on the chair like that? I don’t think so! Sit down!”

Of course, I remember how excited we were when she took her first step without holding on to anything. It seems like so long ago, now! She’d been ‘cruising’ the furniture for a long time, and those first real steps were great to see! Now, I spend most of my time saying, “Wow. Slow down!” I still say, “Walk! Walk! Walk!” but I mean “as opposed to running,” rather than “I know you can do it….if you’d just let go of the couch.”

It’s funny how things change. ;)

One day old! 21 months old!

Claire, barely a day old – Claire at 21-months

20-months old today!

My baby is 20-months old today! I know it sounds so cliché, but I just cannot believe how time flies. It seems as though we’ve been in a whirlwind up to this point, and at other times, I can’t remember a time without her.

20-months old

I took this picture today. Try not to be distracted by the zebra-print created by the reflection of the dining room blinds on our child-proofing guard on the railing! ;)

A Plan B Kind of Day (a.k.a. “It’s just a flesh wound!”)

Well, we had a pretty exciting day yesterday (June 30th), and it all happened on Claire’s 19-month birthday!

 

I’ll start by saying that Claire (and everyone) is okay now. :) This is a gross story, so you’ve been warned.

 

We were working on the bathroom, and then we had lunch, and then Claire and I were playing in the living room while Daddy went to Lowe’s to get some things. It was about 2:30 or so. I was going to get ready to put Claire down for her nap, but I figured we could play a little while longer.

 

I was sitting on the rug in front of the purple chair, and Claire ran over to me. In the process, she fell and hit her head on the corner of the chair. A large gash opened up on her forehead and there was blood spurting everywhere. I quickly applied pressure to the gash with my hand, scooped her up in my arms and ran to the kitchen to get a washcloth. The wound was so gaping and gross that I called 911. She screamed through the first part of the call, but then calmed down a bit.

 

So, why did I call 911 and not Daddy? Well, my husband is the only tech guy in the whole world who shuns cell phones, so I had no way to reach him. I am totally fine with him not carrying a cell phone. When he’s not here, I know I have to have a Plan B. I could have wasted valuable time trying to reach him on the cell phone, knowing that he may have not answered it or may not have had service or may have left it in the car. Plus, I doubt he could have understood me over all the screaming. Because I have accepted all of the above, I immediately jump to Plan B, and it works for everyone.

Also, because he’d gone to Lowe’s, the odds of the trip being 15 minutes or two hours were the same. Because of these things and the fact that I couldn’t take her anywhere myself, I called 911. I’m glad they came to assess the situation. They agreed that it was good I’d called them, even though I’d gotten the bleeding to stop (relatively) before they got there. Anyway, every emergency call gets a fire truck and ambulance, so that was pretty exciting for our neighbors, I’m sure. Luckily, Daddy got home before they were done with their visit, and they said that we could take her to Children’s Hospital ourselves, rather than ride in the ambulance. Had he not arrived in time, I would have had to leave a bloody note for him on the door and ridden with Claire in the ambulance.

So, the rescue personnel leave, and Daddy’s holding Claire. I start running around looking for my shoes. Daddy was like, “Uh, go look in the mirror.” I’m all like, “WHAT!? WHAT!? WHAT!? I have to find my shoes! WE HAVE TO GO!” And he calmly says, “Go look in the mirror.” So, I did, and that’s when I realized I had blood EVERYWHERE. All over my face, neck, hair, clothes. I frantically start scrubbing with a washcloth, and he quietly says, “Babe, just jump in the shower. Seriously, it will take two minutes.” He was right. That was a much better plan. Even with all the excitement, we made it to the ER about an hour or so after it happened.

As we were getting ready to leave the house, I called our babysitter (from my cell phone, from the car) to tell her that we’d have to reschedule the date-night we had been planning for the evening, and I left her a message. As we were driving down the street, her mom was on the sidewalk and we stopped to talk to her. We told her what was happening, and of course, Claire was being all cheery and saying, “HI! HI!” and waving…all with a gash in her forehead. (I was sitting in the back keeping a cloth on it.)

 

Claire did remarkably well at the hospital!! She was all cheery when we got there, and she kept a good attitude pretty much through the entire visit. I was amazed.

Children’s Hospital is great and obviously specializes in treating children, so the system they used was awesome. They decided that she would need one stitch inside and three on the outside. AND…they have the coolest stuff. To numb her forehead, rather than give a shot of stuff, they put this numbing gel on there. They let it set for 35 minutes, and it numbed the whole area. It was really cool.

To do the actual suturing, they swaddled her in a sheet, burrito-style, and then they had a nurse hold her head while the doctor sewed. They also have a special nurse (I forget her title) that specializes in keeping children calm, and her job was to keep Claire distracted while they stitched. They kept saying they were going to wait for this person to come to the room before starting the procedure, and I kept thinking to myself, “How hard can it be to distract Claire if she’s wrapped like a burrito? I can do that! I want to get this over with!” But, when they got the needles out and started the procedure, it was so gross, that I was having trouble focusing, and I nearly barfed. (But, I tried to keep my composure for Claire’s sake).

The lady who was devoted purely to keeping Claire distracted was more helpful than I could imagine. I was SO GLAD they had a trained professional, who didn’t even bat an eye at gaping wounds and blood, there to distract Claire. (I almost needed someone to distract me!) :) We were given the option to stay in the room while they did the procedure or wait outside. We both opted to stay with Claire, and we both did relatively well with all the blood and needles, and Daddy only had to sit down at the very end. Actually, my husband doesn’t do well with blood and needles AT ALL, and he was a trooper. In the midst of all the excitement, I’d totally forgotten about this, and I hadn’t even noticed that he’d sat down in the chair at the end.

When they were all done, Claire kept begging to “Play? Play? Play?” with all the toys they’d brought in to use in the distraction. That’s when I noticed how pale he looked, and then I remembered how he hates situations like this. He did extremely well considering. Granted, he didn’t get to witness the blood spurting out all over the place and hold his bare hand over a gaping wound. But, he got to drive up to the house and see it surrounded by a fire truck and ambulance, and that would be pretty traumatic, too. I don’t know which would be worse, actually.

Anyway, we were at the hospital for a few hours, and it went quicker than we thought it would. Luckily, we got right in. When we were leaving, the waiting room was practically full! Looks like we timed that just right. We stopped to grab a bite to eat before going home, and Claire was fine at the restaurant. She’s going to be really sore today, so we stopped to get some Children’s Tylenol, and she picked out some Barbie Band-Aids.

I’m supposed to take her back to Children’s in five days to have the stitches removed. Running on pure adrenaline has left me utterly and completely exhausted. I’m so glad things turned out the way they did. It could have been so much worse. What a day.

Edited to add this picture of Claire and her stitches! Brushing her teeth in front of the mirror was enough of a distraction to keep her still enough to take the picture. For updates to this saga, check out the archives for the month of July.

Three stitches (on the outside), complete with gooped on Neosporin…

My baby is 18-months old today!

I can’t believe Claire is a year and a half old! I know it sounds cliché, but where does the time go?? Eighteen months ago, I became a Momma, and I still remember that moment very vividly. It helps that I’d asked to watch in the mirror. ;)

I took Claire to see the pediatrician today for her 18-month check up. She weighs 26 lbs and is 32 1/4 inches tall. She’s in the 75-percentile for both categories. They gave her a tetanus shot and the polio one. Since her last appointment was just shy of 6-months ago, they are waiting on the Hep A booster until her 2-yr visit.

The doctor was amazed that she’s saying so many words and actually putting two words together (let alone little primitive sentences). He said 18- to 24-month olds usually say about 10 to 15 words…not 70. Hmmm, I wonder where she gets her verbal skills? We’re such quiet and reserved people. *cough*

She did really well with the shots, so far…oh, and we got a kick out of the “what to expect with this age group” chart they gave us. Under the Social/Emotional category it says, “Self-centered, may have temper tantrums, imitates, and negative behavior.” Great. Way to paint a rosy picture, Doc! :)

Come to think of it, I didn’t realize that 18- to 24-month olds were so similar to 34-year old males. ;)

The pediatrician said she’s doing great, and I’m so thankful.